Post by Deleted on Jul 7, 2010 13:35:57 GMT -5
Just wanted to share a story with all of you.
My husband is not a Christian. But he is not hostile to my being a Christian, or raising our kids that way (except with some hot button topics like evolution--which we do NOT discuss). He is a wonderful, gentle husband and father who does not understand what anyone has told him about salvation, but I still pray for him regarding this.
Anyway, a few years ago, my husband took one of our kids to an amusement park for a "daddy and me" day. While he was there he said, he saw a woman who he was totally drawn to because "She looked just like YOU, honey!". By that he meant that she wore a modest dress and headcovering, not the usual skimpy bathing suit, indecent summer clothes, etc., that so many in the parks wear. He felt this almost magnetic need to go up to her and talk to her, although of course he didn't. But it really made me feel wonderful that he was drawn to her and felt positive about the way she looked, because that meant that he noticed how *I* dressed, and how I dressed our girls, and that he approved.
Men DO notice, and they LIKE a woman who looks like a woman! Marilyn
My husband is not a Christian. But he is not hostile to my being a Christian, or raising our kids that way (except with some hot button topics like evolution--which we do NOT discuss). He is a wonderful, gentle husband and father who does not understand what anyone has told him about salvation, but I still pray for him regarding this.
Anyway, a few years ago, my husband took one of our kids to an amusement park for a "daddy and me" day. While he was there he said, he saw a woman who he was totally drawn to because "She looked just like YOU, honey!". By that he meant that she wore a modest dress and headcovering, not the usual skimpy bathing suit, indecent summer clothes, etc., that so many in the parks wear. He felt this almost magnetic need to go up to her and talk to her, although of course he didn't. But it really made me feel wonderful that he was drawn to her and felt positive about the way she looked, because that meant that he noticed how *I* dressed, and how I dressed our girls, and that he approved.
Men DO notice, and they LIKE a woman who looks like a woman! Marilyn
